It’s Sunday, I’ve had coffee, a lot of coffee, strong coffee, it’s a sign for me to get a few things off my chest.
Facebook, Twitter and Instagram are all working to irritate me this week, it seems all of my feeds are filled with memes regarding happily ever after. Which, if you know me, you know I don’t believe in.
It’s crap, it is pure crap that is fed to us from day one, Cinderella finds her prince, Sleeping Beauty is awakened by true loves kiss, Snow White, same plot line, stop the insanity.
There is no such thing as true love, there is no such thing as happily ever after, there is no such thing as finding someone who will love you through everything and stay faithful.
The world exalts cheaters, almost all love stories that are based on lies and cheating! Brad and Angelina, Johnny Cash and June Carter, everyone wants to say oh their love is so strong, look how they love each other.
Both couples had their roots in cheating, Brad cheated on Jennifer (much better human than Angelina IMHO), Johnny Cash cheated on his wife, left her with their children to go to this woman.
And people today exalt that, I am sickened by cheaters, there is a special place in hell for them, I hope.
Let me tell you what happens to the one cheated on, because no one in this world will tell you that.
They slowly die inside, the cheating must have been their fault, they weren’t pretty enough, smart enough, funny enough, accommodating enough, sexy enough, they just weren’t enough.
Their soul shrinks, they trust no one, not men, not women, because a woman caused this pain. And even though I am going to take a lot of heat for this, the woman could have said no to the cheating man. Their lives will be spent alone, due to the fact they will never trust another human, with the exception of their immediate family, by immediate I mean children and grandchildren.
Men will look, but if they find no one to cheat with, well, what happens then. I don’t know, because there will always be women that are skanky and willing to bed a man that is taken.
There is only one happily ever after and that is in the love of Jesus Christ, God, the Holy Spirit. For God so loved the world He sent His ONLY begotten son. To die for us, so that we may have everlasting life. That’s love, Jesus didn’t cheat on us, lie to us and lull us into complacency, thinking that our world would be perfect.
Our happily ever after comes literally after, after this life, this world.
If you are a young woman, stop looking for Mr. perfect, Mr. right, a knight in shining armor, they do not exist. In my experience they cannot help themselves, they will lie, cheat and will try and make it like you are the crazy one. Build your life to suit you, not someone else, make your own money, keep it separate and become self-sufficient.
Oh and the women that do this with them, they are the worst humans on the face of the planet. I don’t even think there is redemption for them, they are selfish, uncaring, self-loathing, ugly on the inside and it is working its way to the outside women.
My mom used to tell me that ugliness starts on the inside and works its way out, eventually the ugly inside shows on the outside, this is true. I could post a picture of an ugly one on the inside out, however, I don’t want to give her press. Also I don’t want to torture my readers with something so horribly ugly.
Typically, men will cheat with ugly women, do not look at yourself and think why would he choose that over me. There is no explanation, the women they choose, they do it on purpose, unattractive, unable to find anyone decent, they become the other woman. I don’t know why, I can’t pretend to get in their head because, well, I am not a liar, cheater or skank.
I have morals and I can take the high road, I can get on my soapbox, I can rant about this because I have NEVER cheated on anyone or with anyone.
If you are one of these women, who do this, I fully believe you will go to hell when you die. The reason being is you don’t see what you did as wrong, you see what the media has fed you, true love has no obstacles, even when the other person has made a promise to another.
Go to Church, read the Bible, get to know Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior and then maybe you will understand what you have done.
Until then, women, DO NOT believe the hype, there is no perfect mate, there is no happily ever after, there is no one true love. True love does not exist.